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Title: On behalf of my husband
Post by: colockumelk on May 14, 2013, 03:04:42 AM
I'm sorry if I confused or concerned anyone with using Aaron's profile instead of my own (colockumelkwife) but he is permanently logged in and I didn't have the heart to log him off.  This is his wife.

I can never properly express my absolute indebtedness to everyone on this forum who has shown my husband so much love, support and honor.

When I haven't been able to sleep these last 3 weeks I come on to the forum and read all the wonderful things that have been said and done for him.  It brings me some joy amidst all of the pain to see all of you, whom most neither I nor Aaron will ever get the chance to meet, write such beautiful things about my favorite person.  (That was my nickname for him: Favorite).

I know many of you have expressed regret at not being able to meet him in person.  Those that did not have that opportunity I can tell you, as I knew him best, that he was the most amazing, passionate, loving and forthright man I have ever known.  There will never be another Aaron.

I feel so unworthy of all of your generosity, but I do know that my husband earned every bit of honor and love that has come from all of you wonderful people.  On behalf of Aaron, myself and our children, I just wanted to say a HUGE Thank You.

I wish I knew other words.  I wish I had the eloquence to express my gratitude in a more fitting manner.  Thank you seems so trivial.  We use it when someone holds a door open for us, or when the cashier gives us our change back.  I wish I could bottle a portion of my appreciation to send to each one of you so that you could each feel how much I truly mean it when I say "thank you."

I cherish every prayer and thought that has been sent on my husband's behalf to my children and I and I am happy to say that I may even get the chance to meet a few of you as I will be moving back to Washington soon.  It is where I feel most connected to him. 

To all of Hunt-Wa:

May God bless you as graciously as He has my family and I.

Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Machias on May 14, 2013, 03:25:48 AM
Breaks my heart for you and the kids.  Big hug from all of us.  Please, if you ever need anything, please don't hesitate to ask us.  And I have to disagree with you, you have plenty of eloquence.  God bless you and those two little ones.   :'(
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: pendoreilleadventures on May 14, 2013, 03:45:54 AM
No need to thank hunt-wa we are a huge family here and it's the least we can do for Aaron and you're family. God bless you and the little one's.

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Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Taco280AI on May 14, 2013, 03:58:14 AM
With as much as you have to go through, nobody here will take "thank you" lightly or not see it as enough. Thank you for coming here to make a post of any kind. I hope you can find some peace and rest of some kind soon.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Button Nubbs on May 14, 2013, 03:59:18 AM
Its the very least we could do.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: rasbo on May 14, 2013, 04:07:33 AM
your so welcome,I cant put into words how I feel for you and your family.I pray you all find peace and God blesses you.Any thing more we could help with please let us know.You will always have a huge support base here
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: remington300mag on May 14, 2013, 04:21:57 AM
 :yeah:

Also, thank you for letting us have so much time with Aaron on here. He impacted a lot of people in such a positive way. Only wish there was more that could be done to ease your pain..... My heart goes goes out to you and your family. As Rasbo said, please don't hesitate reaching out on here if you need anything..... as you can see this is a great group of people more than willing to help.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: 3nails on May 14, 2013, 05:35:27 AM
 There is always someone on the forum. When you need relief I hope you you log in. There will always be someone here for you.
 The Lord sees and feels your grief and loss. He will bring you great joy again.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: boneaddict on May 14, 2013, 05:44:53 AM
We are here for you Becky.   My eyes might be a little blurred from tears, but we are here.   You got me all choked up, I cant even type.   The Kikendalls, Selah and Huntwa have open arms for you anytime.   You  my Dear, owe us nothing.  I am going to have to refer back to Machias post.  Hugs and thankyous from all of us.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: HntnFsh on May 14, 2013, 05:47:59 AM
It seems to me that just getting on here and writing what you did would be no easy task for you right now. That means a lot to us. As said before. If you ever need anything, please ask. We will do our best to help out in any way we can.

You and your family are in our prayers for Peace,Comfort,and Healing. I pray that God blesses you and your family many times over.

HntnFsh
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: jackelope on May 14, 2013, 05:55:59 AM
Not much more to be said than what's already been said here. May God bless you and your family. We're always here, just stop in and say hello now and then.  Aaron was a good man.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Skyvalhunter on May 14, 2013, 05:57:44 AM
Mrs. Blanchard we are honored to have you amongst us. It is very good to hear that you are able to seek some temporary ease to your pain. It has been our pleasure to share a bit of your well respected husbands wonderful life on this planet. I myself would love to get an update from time to time how you and the children are doing. If there is anything we can do or help out with don't hesitate to ask as there would be a ton of Hunt Wa members more than willing to help out. God Bless you and your family.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: sven on May 14, 2013, 06:11:59 AM
it's all been said in all the post , God bless you and your Family
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: pianoman9701 on May 14, 2013, 06:20:41 AM
It was a pleasure knowing "Colock" and it's a pleasure meeting you. Welcome to our forum. :hello:
Title: Re: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: grundy53 on May 14, 2013, 06:24:00 AM
Not much more to be said than what's already been said here. May God bless you and your family. We're always here, just stop in and say hello now and then.  Aaron was a good man.
:Yeah:

sent from my typewriter

Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: coachcw on May 14, 2013, 06:24:12 AM
It's really our honor to have been able to know Cloc , even in only in his words . He has brought out a lot of good in people and gave myself and I'm sure many others on here a freash look and life and what being an American is all about . My deepist condolences to you and your Familly , Sincerelly Coach/Corey .
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: kenzmad on May 14, 2013, 06:34:12 AM
Colockumelkwife,

We here at huntwa would like to thank YOU for letting us help. We are honored to do so. Please chime in here now and then and let us know how you and the kids are doing. I have been on this site for quite awhile and i was not logging in here very often as i didn't like the direction the site was headed. The passing of your husband has completely changed the attitude of the members on here. Aaron was a good man no doubt, i feel a sense of loss and grief which is kind of weird as i never got to meet him. He is continuing to do good by keeping the members here in line.(ask a mod, this aint an easy task). Ma'am,  i would like to thank you for allowing us here so much time with him, it was fun and humbling. I wish you the best and please don't hesitate to ask for help. We are here for you.

Oh ya, welcome to the forum
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Whitpirate on May 14, 2013, 06:37:14 AM
I was fortunate enough to meet Aaron a few times and spent many an evening pinging messages back and forth on a variety of topics.  He was a good man and terribly missed.  Thank you for sharing him with us Becky and as said before all you need do is ask and I and many others will be there to help you and your children in any way we can.  When Hunter is older I know he won't have any trouble finding mentoring in the woods with his Uncles or his "Hunt-WA Unks." 

I wish I could do more but please update us on your lives from time to time. 

All the best
Chris
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: deerhunter_98520 on May 14, 2013, 06:42:27 AM
No need for thanks.....thats what family does for each other....although most of us have never met this is like a family on here....were greatful for what your husband did for us....he gave the ultimate sacrafice for everyone in this country...its the least we could do to show our thanks
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: SniperDanWA on May 14, 2013, 06:57:57 AM
Through the midst of your pain, you have shown us yet another side of Aaron that many of us never knew.  While he had a few posts about the family, Aaron was a down and dirty "facts" kinda person.  He and I exchanged a few rounds of PMs during the last election.  To me, I miss the sparring.  We had similar beliefs, but different ones too.  Knowing that you had the courage to come on here today speaks volumes for why he was so beloved by him.  Your Favorite was that to many on here as you have seen.  I'm truly apologetic that we as a country sent your husband off to the threat of life; however, I know he was happy doing his job and for that I can say thank you.

Becky, strange to call you by name so colockumelkwife, I don't have much to offer but I'm on here for assistance like many others should you need me and by golly, you ma'am are one top notch lady.  Just holler and you've got help.

SniperDanWA
aka - Mark
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Skillet on May 14, 2013, 07:00:24 AM
As said, No thanks necessary from the family.  It is heartwarming to know that you and your little ones will be able to come on here in the future during the tough times and see how highly Aaron was regarded amongst his hunting brothers and sisters.

I always enjoyed his posts, but it was his signature line that always struck me as perfectly fitting his service duty and the benefits to our way of life that we all sometimes take for granted: 

"We Sleep Safe In Our Beds because rough men stand ready in the night to visit violence on those that would do us harm."

Aaron stood ready, and I and those I love slept safe. 

Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: rtspring on May 14, 2013, 07:08:43 AM
Becky,

You owe nothing to any of us, If anything we owe you!! Although I can just imagine how hard it has been, keep your head held high!

If you need anything, and I mean anything! Please just ask and I will be there!  Your husband gave all, now it is our turn to give you all we can!

Rtspring
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: runamuk on May 14, 2013, 07:12:47 AM
Becky thank you for sharing him with us.
All I can offer you is a hug, I cannot begin to imagine being in your shoes.  When you get back to Wa if you need anything just let us know.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Shooter on May 14, 2013, 07:13:37 AM
It's good to hear your moving to Washington Becky, if you need anything at all please turn to us here, I'm certain we will be there faster than you can blink an eye.

Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Widgeondeke on May 14, 2013, 07:22:15 AM
Not much more to be said than what's already been said here. May God bless you and your family. We're always here, just stop in and say hello now and then.  Aaron was a good man.

Ditto
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: haugenna on May 14, 2013, 07:23:59 AM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.  Thank you for sharing colock with us. 
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Smokepole on May 14, 2013, 07:31:54 AM
Well Ma'am you are surely worthy of all the generosity you receive.  And your writing is eloquent and sincere.  Plus, you seem to know how to spell.  Not many of us around here can say that.   :chuckle:

I never met Aaron, but I'm a dad.  I'm grateful for his service to this country, and to you for standing behind him while he served.  For raising his kids, too. 

Someone gave me the best bit of advice when we had young kids like yours.  A lady named Mary.  She had the most wonderful family, with kids and lots of grand kids.  She told me, "You have to keep them busy every minute.  Keep them so busy, they don't have time to think up any trouble."

We got our kids into the great outdoors every chance we could get.  We took them to bluegrass music campouts - and did everything as a family.  We have been so busy having fun.  We never had a lot of money, so we did cheap stuff, like hiking, hunting, fishing etc.  Things are turning out just like Mary said.  The best advice anyone ever gave us.

I pray that your children will grow up and make you proud.  I hope they will be your protection from sorrow.

It has been so uplifting to see so many folks offering to help you and the kids get through a tough time.  To see their kind words and generosity.  So good to know there is so much goodness all around, when all we hear about is the bad stuff.  I'm so proud of everyone here.

God bless you and the children.

 
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: quadrafire on May 14, 2013, 07:34:43 AM
Through weepy eyes I read your post.
We can all feel the heartfelt gratitude in your writing. No fear of not
being "eloquent" ..........your words were beautiful.
My heartfelt sorrow, and thanks, to your family!
God Bless
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: fishinmike on May 14, 2013, 07:35:56 AM
Thank You for being here, your husband has had a profound impact on a lot of people here. My thoughts are with you and all of your family.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: fishngamereaper on May 14, 2013, 07:38:25 AM
Through weepy eyes I read your post.
We can all feel the heartfelt gratitude in your writing. No fear of not
being "eloquent" ..........your words were beautiful.
My heartfelt sorrow, and thanks, to your family!
God Bless

 :yeah: :'(   Not much else to say. God Bless you and your family.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: jstone on May 14, 2013, 07:38:33 AM
WOW I to am chocked up AGAIN. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR KIDS. Hunt Wa has Great people on here. If you ever need anything I am sure that we can help, thats what we do. Aaron did.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: JLS on May 14, 2013, 07:39:14 AM
Becky,

God bless you and your family.  Your husband gave the ultimate sacrifice, which speaks volumes about him.  It also speaks volumes about what kind of person you must be.  I will continue to pray for all of you.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: h2ofowlr on May 14, 2013, 07:40:10 AM
Thank you for the touching response.  Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: JPhelps on May 14, 2013, 07:43:08 AM
Becky,
God Bless you and your family.  If you ever need anything don't hesitate to ask.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Chase 1 on May 14, 2013, 07:49:58 AM
There truly are no words to fully express how sorry for your loss I am. This tragedy has touched the core of thousands with grief and sadness, I'm glad that you have taken comfort to know that so many care and share in your grief. Aaron reminded us about what is truly important in life. We have been reminded of how precious life is and the importance of holding our loved ones close and appreciating every minute we get to spend with them. It breaks my heart that you and your children have lost your husband and their father. Thank you for sharing with us a true American hero. Without a doubt, the debt is ours.  :'(
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Broken Arrow on May 14, 2013, 07:54:34 AM
Hearts and prayers are on going for you and your family. Beautiful and gracious letter, yet somehow through my tears after reading this, I feel guilty for you thanking us. We are all one big family!
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: farmin4u_98948 on May 14, 2013, 08:04:53 AM
I am very proud and heart broken for you and your family. Thank you for  sharing with us.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Greenhorn on May 14, 2013, 08:07:34 AM
Thank YOU for the sacrifice that your family has made for us.  We can never repay that.  I pray that God will protect you and your family as you move on and honor the memory of Aaron.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Elkaholic daWg on May 14, 2013, 08:25:16 AM
 :yeah: :yeah: :yeah: To what everyone has said!!! Thank YOU for sharing your Favorite with us! And we are always here as stated before. I never met Aaron, but I went to a Commision metting in Ellensburg in the spring of  '09, and had the honor of speaking on the same topic (his namesake) and the concerns we had for their well being and survival. I did not agree with all of his ideas for the solution, (but came around to agreeing on some) but admired him for his passion for the colockum elk herd. I can only imagine the passion he had for his family. Best wishes and prayers.......E. D.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: buckcanyonlodge on May 14, 2013, 08:33:19 AM
Ditto...........               .When you get back to Washington , look up Buck Canyon Lodge we have a couple rooms reserved for you and the kids. Gotta go now and get this eyelash out of my eye.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Turner89 on May 14, 2013, 08:34:45 AM
I think everyone hopes that when they pass, that they are loved, respected, honered, and leave a lasting impression in the world. Not everyone does. Your husband has done that. Has changed my outlook on life.   Thank you for your families service.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: groundhog on May 14, 2013, 08:50:39 AM
Through weepy eyes I read your post.
We can all feel the heartfelt gratitude in your writing. No fear of not
being "eloquent" ..........your words were beautiful.
My heartfelt sorrow, and thanks, to your family!
God Bless

Regretfully I never met Aaron although I feel like we were friends. We shared opinions on the Colockum and other issues. We all valued and respected his well thought out opinions very much. Words cannot express what I feel for you and your family. Please let me know if there is ANYTHING I can do to help you in ANYWAY. I mean this from the bottom of my heart so please don't hesitate to contact me. It would be an honor to help you with ANYTHING!!! If you move back to Selah and ever need a babysitter for the little ones my daughters (14 and 16) would be honored to help out at no charge.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: dewandgin on May 14, 2013, 09:09:44 AM
All I can say is Thank you and may God bless you and your family for the rest of your lives.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: 6x6in6 on May 14, 2013, 09:10:44 AM
I have typed, backspaced, typed, backspaced repeatedly here.
I have a shortage of words, again, for what I have just read Mrs. Blanchard.  And a tear again!!!

Your thank you is far, far from trivial.  I wish I could do more as do so many of these HuntWa family members.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Austrian Hunter on May 14, 2013, 09:15:07 AM
Mrs. Blanchard,
My heart and prayers are with you and your family.  You don't need to thank us or anyone, we need to say "THANK YOU"  words can not describe how difficult this must be for you and your family.  God Bless you and the family!!!! 
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: 724wd on May 14, 2013, 09:38:10 AM
Ma'am, all I can do is offer my condolences for the loss of your husband.  Your family has made the ultimate sacrifice and my heart hurts.  As a father of young children, I can't imagine the confusion and heartbreak you've had to face in the past few weeks.  Thank you for dropping in.  We all wish the best for you and your family. 

heath
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: huntnphool on May 14, 2013, 09:48:00 AM
 It's unimaginable the pain you and your family must be feeling right now, and although your thank you is much appreciated by each member, its us as Americans that should be thanking him and your family.

I thank him for his staunch dedication to our freedoms and this country, his willingness to put his life on the line for each and every one of us, as if we were family. His courage to do what most men won't, and paying the ultimate sacrifice in the name of liberty.

A heart felt Thank You to you and the rest of your family, for sharing him with us as Americans and allowing him to be the man you knew him to be, honorable, dedicated, selfless and a patriot.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: rainshadow1 on May 14, 2013, 10:03:45 AM
Any little gesture from me, or any of my fellow forum members, seems (is) woefully inadequate to commemorate Aaron's service, and consequently, to honor your loss. Thank you for being a soldier's wife, we mourn your sacrifice with you, and celebrate his well lived life with you in what little we throw together here.

I wish you God's Peace and comfort and encouragement as you and your children travel this road. May you have a cloud of loving support and strength around you along every step of the way. 

Prayers will continue.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Orion88 on May 14, 2013, 10:12:01 AM
It's all been said in the previous posts.  Aaron touched a lot of people on this site.  As many have said, if you need anything, please reach out to the group.  God bless you and your children.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Gringo31 on May 14, 2013, 10:24:39 AM
Like many....I'd be honored to help in any way should you need it.

You just need to ask  :tup:  Maybe we can get you a little Hunt-wa silver bell for you to ring when you need something....and send Karl to fetch it up from us  ;)
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: firefighter4607 on May 14, 2013, 10:51:24 AM
As others have said you don't owe the members of this site anything. Aaron gave his all to protect our freedom. We can't give you enough to repay our debt we owe to him.
 It is great to hear from you and glad you are starting to heal from your loss. Please keep us in mind and if you need anything we are here to help.  :tup:
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: bearpaw on May 14, 2013, 10:57:42 AM
I just found this topic and am at a loss for words. The comments already written capture my thoughts as well. One thing I would add, it's obvious to me that Aaron had the perfect life, he loved his work, he loved his hobbies, he loved his family, and they loved him back. I'm very sorry I do not have the mental fortitude at the moment to write anything better, so with tears in my eyes, I welcome you to the forum Becky. I'm sorry, I just don't have the capacity to say more.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: saylean on May 14, 2013, 11:22:50 AM
It was an honor to help out.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Boss .300 winmag on May 14, 2013, 11:42:05 AM
It's unimaginable the pain you and your family must be feeling right now, and although your thank you is much appreciated by each member, its us as Americans that should be thanking him and your family.

I thank him for his staunch dedication to our freedoms and this country, his willingness to put his life on the line for each and every one of us, as if we were family. His courage to do what most men won't, and paying the ultimate sacrifice in the name of liberty.

A heart felt Thank You to you and the rest of your family, for sharing him with us as Americans and allowing him to be the man you knew him to be, honorable, dedicated, selfless and a patriot.

I couldn't have said this any better!  :tup:

Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: X-Force on May 14, 2013, 11:48:04 AM
All of the above.

Thank you Blanchard family
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Russ McDonald on May 14, 2013, 12:00:49 PM
I can't say anything more than what everyone has already said.  Thank you.  Remember you always have a family here.

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Title: On behalf of my husband
Post by: iRem on May 14, 2013, 12:02:25 PM
I'm sorry I just could not get through this with our a tear in my eye. As I type this I can not express what I would go through if the same had happen to my wife. I can not imagine what you are going through. I do know this, every member on here would go into battle for one another, and that is what I want to be part of! Prayers continue to go to you and your family for strength and guidance in this time of suffering! God bless you and your family.

Paul
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Rainier10 on May 14, 2013, 12:36:29 PM
Wow, this one got the tears going. I can't say anything that hasn't been said already.  God bless you and your family.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: turkeydancer on May 14, 2013, 06:47:08 PM
I too haven't been able to keep a dry eye since hearing the news, and watch the responses on this forum. I really cannot add anything to what has been said already, and is in all members hearts. I know how hard it is for you and yours since I've been dealing with a similar loss of my 35 year old ex-Marine son 2 years ago from cancer, leaving his wife,  8 year old daughter, and 5 year son. He was so much like Aaron they would have been the best of friends. I still miss my son, my friend,  and hunting buddy so much ... but I also have to be so happy I did get to be his dad and watch him grow to be such a wonderful husband, dad, and friend to so many.   Lean on us as you need us. May God watch over you and yours and the memories of Aaron bring you the peace you so rightly deserve.  Thank you !
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: jyerxa on May 14, 2013, 07:16:06 PM
colockumelkwife, that was a very beautiful and wonderful post you started up this morning. I’m just one of those outsiders that didn’t know him at all. But I could easily tell the passions he had from his comments here. And the beauty you have that captured his heart. Thank you for sharing with us.  :)
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Dan-o on May 14, 2013, 07:32:16 PM
Agreed.

Please know that this community won't forget nor would we grow tired of hearing from you.....   Even if it's to help you lug boxes when you move.

I'd drive over just for the honor of helping your family move in more easily.


Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: DOUBLELUNG on May 14, 2013, 07:41:08 PM
I thought I was done shedding tears - I was wrong.  Thank you Mrs. Blanchard for the terrible sacrifice you and your children have experienced, and are experiencing. 
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: hambone on May 14, 2013, 08:22:58 PM
I can't say much more than what has been said you and your children are in are thoughts and prayers
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Huntbear on May 14, 2013, 08:49:25 PM
Mrs. Colockumelk,

I literally had to wait for the tears to clear to type, after reading your post.  We owe you a Thank You, for allowing Aaron to be a part of our lives, even if for most it was electronically.  He truly knew how to touch people's lives.

It is a privilege to honor him.  I have no other way to put it... and in honoring him, we honor you and those two beautiful young ones. 

Please just ask if you need anything.  We are all here for you and your children.  Aaron would have done the same for us, without even thinking twice about it.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: GoPlayOutside on May 14, 2013, 10:20:43 PM
Thank you and your family infinitely!
Your family is in my family's prayers.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Special T on May 14, 2013, 10:48:57 PM
Why is it that the most deserving of our respect and condolence Have a hard time accepting it? There is something drilled into us that we are unworthy of praise or thanks...
Your Husband died a warriors death running INTO the fight. Not many people make that sacrifice...
No words we say can wipe away the pain, Which is why you and your family are so deserving of our unending gratitude...
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Ripper on May 15, 2013, 08:21:59 AM
God Bless you and your family.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Huntboy on May 15, 2013, 08:25:48 AM
God Bless you and your family.

 :yeah:
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: turkeyfeather on May 15, 2013, 08:46:30 AM
I tried to comment yesterday but just couldn't seem to do it. I was in the military and lost friends there, but that will never compare to what you lost. Words cannot explain the pride I feel not only for your husband but for you as well. It takes a very strong woman to stand beside an active duty military man, and not all can do it. It is now our duty to help you out any way we can.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Wahaya unegv on May 15, 2013, 06:39:06 PM
Mrs. Blanchard-
I did have the honor of both talking with Mr. Blanchard on the forum and in person. He was a wonderful person. I know my husband and I were really looking forward to getting up to Fort Drum to meet him. (My husband told me that we already had hunting trips planned). I got the opportunity to meet him in person and unfortunately my husband did not and I know he struggles with that. I was really looking forward to being with him in the sandbox (in which I will be really, really soon). My husband felt so much more at ease knowing that he was going to be there to keep me safe (as per a discussion i was told about between the men) and with what what I know of Mr. Blanchard I know he will be anyway as he will over every other soldier and his family.
As I had told Mr. Karl, it was an honor for me to count him as my brother and I will never forget him. Thank you and your family for allowing me the opportuniity to know and serve with your husband and children's father. There are no thanks needed to me. I already owe you more than you could ever owe me.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: rebal69972 on May 15, 2013, 08:28:12 PM
God Bless you and your family.

 :yeah:
 If there is ever anything you and your family needs please don't hesitate to ask. we are 1 family. your husband helped to ease my mind about my wife going over in just a few words. I will never forget him. I will be in NY next week. Thank you and God bless.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: bearhunter99 on May 15, 2013, 08:43:55 PM
It's unimaginable the pain you and your family must be feeling right now, and although your thank you is much appreciated by each member, its us as Americans that should be thanking him and your family.

I thank him for his staunch dedication to our freedoms and this country, his willingness to put his life on the line for each and every one of us, as if we were family. His courage to do what most men won't, and paying the ultimate sacrifice in the name of liberty.

A heart felt Thank You to you and the rest of your family, for sharing him with us as Americans and allowing him to be the man you knew him to be, honorable, dedicated, selfless and a patriot.

I couldn't have said this any better!  :tup:

 :yeah:

Your family has been in our thoughts and prayers, and even our 5 yr old reminds me during our blessing for dinner to remember your family.  God bless!
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Post by: B.G.hunter on May 15, 2013, 09:10:29 PM
It's unimaginable the pain you and your family must be feeling right now, and although your thank you is much appreciated by each member, its us as Americans that should be thanking him and your family.

I thank him for his staunch dedication to our freedoms and this country, his willingness to put his life on the line for each and every one of us, as if we were family. His courage to do what most men won't, and paying the ultimate sacrifice in the name of liberty.

A heart felt Thank You to you and the rest of your family, for sharing him with us as Americans and allowing him to be the man you knew him to be, honorable, dedicated, selfless and a patriot.

I was one of the first people to read this and just started to cry.  I couldn't think of anything write but I think you said best huntnphool.  Thank you Captain Blanchard, Thank you Mrs. Blanchard, Thank you Blanchard Family, and Thank you to every service man and woman past and present and their families.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Todd_ID on May 16, 2013, 12:29:44 AM
I've read every word about Aaron I could find.  I haven't been able to respond because of emotions.  Through heavy tears I've written and re-written this note.  I hope his sons may read this in 20, 30, 40, 50 and 60 years and be very proud of their Dad.

To Aaron,

The Hunt-WA family was a part of you; like it is for many of us.  I know you are getting this message from however we'll get internet in heaven.  In our talks I always said you would outrank me if you stuck to your plan.  I wasn't thinking it would come to you being elevated to the rank of National Hero in this way; that was unexpected and unwelcome: but Thank You!  I wish you could have made it to your bird to be able to defend yourself and protect America and our freedoms, but that was not God's plan.
When you were certified to fly that thing, I slept better that week.  My family was safer because of your talent; I appreciate that.  You were there to protect me, my family and what we stand for.  That will never be forgotten.
I stand here in a perpetual salute to you and your family.  Please continue to watch over us from above!
Sir, I salute you!

With all my love and respect,
Todd
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: BOWHUNTER45 on May 16, 2013, 02:51:42 AM
Amen ....little early to read something like that but it raises the spirit  :tup: :salute:
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Band on May 16, 2013, 08:25:20 AM
Thanks for writing Becky.  Aaron's passing touched me deeply even though I never met or even had a conversation with him.  From his posts alone I could tell that he was a forthright man and a good husband/father.  He will be missed by all of us.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I hope your move back to Washington brings you and the children the peace and comfort you deserve.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: JJD on May 16, 2013, 09:48:46 AM
May you and yours find comfort soon.
All I will add is that I believe the world is a better place as a result of his presence. 
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: CoryTDF on May 16, 2013, 10:00:58 AM
He will be missed for sure. The BIGFOOT thread will not be the same without him posting on it. At least now he knows for certain where bigfoot lives as im sure he is always looking down on the land he loved. God bless his sacrifice for this great country and god bless you and your family as you deal with these hard times. He was an important member of HW and is missed by all.
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Post by: HUNTINCOUPLE on May 16, 2013, 10:10:25 AM
God Bless you and your family.
:yeah:
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: love2archeryhunt on May 16, 2013, 11:00:58 AM
Becky, the "Army Values" sum up what Aaron was all about.  May God bless and watch over you and your family.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Ghost Hunter on May 16, 2013, 05:50:34 PM
I seen Aaron's goodbye and meant to respond with a 'Be safe', but I didn't.   I'm a quiet person at times, and somehow because I hadn't met Aaron and only read his posts, I felt it wouldn't mean much.  I've hesitated to post here.  I only hope we can help carry your grief with you.  My heart aches for you and your family.   May time soften the ache, and build the pride you and your children can carry a life time for the sacrifice Aaron gave.   God bless you.
GH
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: whitey on May 17, 2013, 03:21:51 AM
Man Oh Boy.
Im sitting in the middle of a hanger in Ethiopia and my eyes havent seen this many tears in recent times.
Becky may God bless you and the childern and keep you all safe and strong.
Aaron is watching over you and his kids with the wings only God could give.
Please let Us know if there is anything you need, would be very happy to help
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: demontang on May 17, 2013, 07:47:50 PM
God bless you and the kids. If there is ever anything me or my family can do never be afraid to ask. I will do all I can to do it for you or the kids. :hello:
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: hunting4sanity on May 18, 2013, 10:25:58 PM
All I can do is echo the sentiments already expressed by so many and continue to include you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.  Your response was the most moving and sincere expression I believe I've ever read.  May God's love and mercies be poured out on you and your family eternally.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: buxnbullz on May 19, 2013, 08:01:51 AM
Becky it's so good to hear from you. I have not posted any replies regarding Aaron, but you and your children have been in my thoughts often. This has stirred wounds that I'm reliving. My step son was KIA in Afghanistan 10/10/11. He also was with the 10th Mountain Division from Ft. Drum.

I'm sure the Gold Star group has been in touch, let them help with support and counseling for you, your children, family members and even close friends.

I'm comforted knowing you'll be returning to Washington were you have roots and family.

I hope you feel a sense of warmth and love from all these people that have expressed there feelings in acts and words, you have 100's of people on here that are ready to help in any way they can, no matter how big or small the task you just need to ask. I likewise will be standing by ready to help for one of our fallen.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Wazukie on May 19, 2013, 08:12:23 AM
I will continue to lift you and your family up in prayer.  May God bless and care for you richly.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: GregE on May 28, 2013, 04:45:08 PM
I corresponded with ColockumElk / Aaron here and on Sagecreekforums.com for several years.   We shared the love of chasing ELK and his dream of flying.

Before he went to flight Army helicopter flight training I told him what is was like for me back in 1966 and offered encouragement- and appreciated his progress reports.  I hadn't heard from him for a while after he moved to Ft Drum and just saw an announcment in the Washington Bowhunter that came today.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family.


Greg Eastman
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: wildmanoutdoors on May 28, 2013, 04:57:54 PM
 :salute:
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: csaaphill on May 30, 2013, 02:40:33 AM
Hi don't deserve to call you becky since I didnt know you or your husband outside this forumn, but hope you can get passed all this. I don't know how to convey how sorry I am to hear this. I debated him a few times on here and was more times than not on the opposite side of views, but was all in the spirit of debate never disdain. Hope you know that is you've read some of our debates. I feel so bad now I never would wish this on him in any way. I thank him for his service.
OMFG so sorry hope he forgives me some of my rants.
take care hope you come here some time again.
Title: Re: On behalf of my husband
Post by: Wild Bill on January 04, 2014, 04:48:32 PM
I apologize for the late reply to your original post, but was thinking about my interactions with Aaron in the military, and saw this.

Spartan. Thats how I think of your husband. Great man. A nations lost, but I assure you he would have it no other way than running to aid his brothers in arms against a lawless enemy.

I promise you he will not go forgotten.
He was one of the pilots assigned to cover down on my team for close air support.
Many, many men owe their lives to your husband.

Nothing I can say can help you recover from the pain you've been feeling, but i give my condolences.

Valhalla Mrs. Aaron Blanchard. Valhalla

My respects,
Wild Bill
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