Post by: Fishnclifff on September 23, 2013, 10:20:29 PM
He was a troubled teen and my son was his best friend. When there was trouble at home, the sheriff would bring him to my house for time out. The more time he spent with us, the less frequent those trips were. I started him hunting ducks and fishing.He eventually stayed with us towards the end of high school.
He got messed up with the drug culture in Seattle and disappeared for many years.
One day he reappeared and tried to start anew. He got cleaned up, got a good job, eventually got married, and had 2 beautiful children. We had many conversations on how to go about life and be a good father.
He eventually fell back into old ways. This time alcohol and not hard drugs.
He got drunk at his house in Spokane, chased the cat outside with a toy pistol, one night. Someone called the cops.
In all the chaos, he was shot 5 times and paralyzed from the chest down.
He was living back in the Seattle area.
Because of his injuries, he was on some heavy meds. He was becoming more paranoid each day and delusional
Some time this past Sunday, he took his own life.
My heart knows he is in no pain anymore and free from his demons.
My heart is aching for my real son, Clifford, because he had just talked to him that day and said there was no indications.
I would like to ask those with kids, Love them, listen to their joy, their sorrows, their fears. Help them or try to get them help if the need is there.
David was not my blood, but he was a special child, with imagination, creativity, and spirit.
I have and will always treasure the artwork and a hand made knife he gave me. He asked me once if I still had them, I said always. He said good, so you don't forget me.
I will never forget you son
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My thoughts are also with you, your family, and his family.
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Post by: 6.8mmARHunter on September 23, 2013, 11:02:20 PM
Sorry for your loss.
Peace to you.
RIP to David.
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Post by: seth30 on September 24, 2013, 01:13:24 PM
Thanks for being a positive influence in this mans life. Praying for your family and his.:yeah:
Post by: hntrspud on September 24, 2013, 01:42:45 PM
Sorry to hear about the loss. I am sure others would agree his time here on this planet was extended and more pleasurable because you lent out a helping hand. May he rest in peace.
He was only able to have those children and a wife, and a longer life than what he would have had if it wasnt for you and your family. My heart goes out to all those involved. Very very sorry
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Post by: bracer40 on September 24, 2013, 06:04:18 PM
Sad, sorry for your loss. You should be commended for being there for him throughout his life and all of the ups and downs. What a testimony of what being a dad is all about :tup:Your role in this man's life is a testimony to how to be a father to not only your own children but to all you've shared your life with, including even to those of us briefly sharing it from your post.
May you find peace in your time outdoors and in with your loved ones.
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Post by: scout/sniper on September 25, 2013, 12:04:42 PM
Losing a loved one is very painful, even for the toughest of us.
My family's prayers go out to you and yours.
Sometimes the most amazing things come from tragedy and I wish you peace and healing my friend.
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Post by: Fishnclifff on September 25, 2013, 02:59:08 PM
Sorry to hear that, my condolences. I grew up with a guy who went by that name out on Camano Island, he left highschool around 2000-2001, i am sorry for your loss even if it wasn't the same guy i knew. The David i knew was a great guy who had the same sort of problems, i always hoped he would get everything together for himself. Never good to hear something like this and i hope everone involved can find a way to stay strong and carry on.
This is probably the same David. He was from Camano.
The services are Wednesday, October 2, 2013 at 1:00PM Evans Funeral Chapel 1105 32nd Street Anacortes, WA 98221 360-293-3311.
He had some chances in his life and he honestly struggled to make changes he needed.
The evil and darkness of the drug culture was very strong.
We will miss him.
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