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Title: RIP DAD
Post by: scottfrick on December 18, 2014, 11:17:36 AM: Yesterday I got the phone call everyone dreads to receive. My dad had passed away. He went in for a weight loss surgery Monday morning and was found in his hotel room yesterday morning peacefully in his bed. They believe he had went to sleep and just stopped breathing. I'm at loss for words. I just lost my friend, my hunting partner and the man I am proud to call my father. Just doesn't feel real, I keep waiting to hear my phone to go off just to look and see a text message from him saying he's good and on his way home. I'm not ready for this, I haven't been able to make you a grandfather, we haven't gone on that family out of state hunting trip yet, I can't lose you yet dad. Everything feels like a horrible nightmare that I can't wake up from. I love you with all my heart!!!
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Post by: boneaddict on December 18, 2014, 11:21:06 AM: VERY SORRY! A day I dread something fierce. :sry: :(
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Post by: Daytonite on December 18, 2014, 11:22:38 AM: Sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family
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Post by: vandeman17 on December 18, 2014, 11:23:32 AM: Wow I am very sorry to hear that! I know its all part of life but that doesn't make it an easier. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Post by: Woodchuck on December 18, 2014, 11:24:46 AM: So Sorry for your loss. I remember the day I got that call like it was yesterday. :sry:
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Post by: Wacenturion on December 18, 2014, 11:25:09 AM: So sorry to hear that. I lost my Father a year ago. Fortunately for me he was almost 95 and had him with us for longer than we could have hoped. Sorry to hear you lost him so soon.
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Post by: CAMPMEAT on December 18, 2014, 11:29:02 AM: Sorry. I got a call 10 years ago myself. I think about my Dad everyday.............. :'(
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Post by: Hornseeker on December 18, 2014, 11:37:39 AM: Im So Sorry... My thoughts are with you...
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Post by: jrebel on December 18, 2014, 11:47:04 AM: Very sorry for you loss. I lost my dad 4 years ago and the phone call was gut wrenching. Find family and friends to be close to in the coming days and weeks. Again....So very sorry for you loss. :'(
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Post by: quadrafire on December 18, 2014, 11:50:37 AM: Very Sorry! Been there for that same phone call. Bad deal. Great memories and time helps fade the pain.
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Post by: Smokepole on December 18, 2014, 11:51:21 AM: Sorry to hear the sad news about your dad. It is a tough thing. I miss my dad every day, especially at hunting camp.
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Post by: pianoman9701 on December 18, 2014, 11:57:09 AM: So sorry Scott. That's horrible.
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Post by: HUNTINCOUPLE on December 18, 2014, 11:59:57 AM: Sorry to hear this.
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Post by: MightyWhite on December 18, 2014, 12:09:37 PM: im so sorry for you scott..i know the feeling been 8 yrs for me..think about him every day time heals bud..my prayers
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Post by: Gobble on December 18, 2014, 12:10:40 PM: I am soo sorry to hear, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers :'(
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Post by: stew pidasso on December 18, 2014, 12:16:28 PM: I'm sorry but he is still with you everyday every hunting trip.
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Post by: T Pearce on December 18, 2014, 12:19:34 PM: So sorry Scott, stay strong as you can.
Prayers.
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Post by: Machias on December 18, 2014, 12:22:14 PM: So very sorry for your loss. Miss mine ALL the time!
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Post by: skeeter 20i on December 18, 2014, 12:54:37 PM: Very sorry for your loss.
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Post by: Rainier10 on December 18, 2014, 12:58:15 PM: So sorry to hear of your loss.
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Post by: Dhoey07 on December 18, 2014, 01:00:56 PM: That's horrible man. Just remember that he's still watching down on you and try and make him proud! When you do make him a grandfather, make sure your kids know what kind of man he was :tup:
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Post by: wildmanoutdoors on December 18, 2014, 01:04:08 PM: :'(
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Post by: Bigluke1981 on December 18, 2014, 01:10:47 PM: I am so sorry about your loss, you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!!
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Post by: Becky on December 18, 2014, 01:11:27 PM: Wow that is so so sad, I'm so sorry. :'(
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Post by: NWBREW on December 18, 2014, 01:36:44 PM: Very sorry to hear about your loss.
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Post by: jackelope on December 18, 2014, 01:41:58 PM: Sorry for your loss, Scott. I'm coming up on 2 years since I got that same call. I still remember like it was yesterday.
Prayers to you and your family.
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Post by: Wazukie on December 18, 2014, 01:45:02 PM: Sorry for you loss Scott. Praying for you and your family. Lost my dad 14 years ago and my mom 9 months ago.
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Post by: Blacktail Sniper on December 18, 2014, 01:52:54 PM: Sorry to hear of your loss.
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Post by: oneshot12 on December 18, 2014, 02:09:06 PM: Very Sorry for your loss
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Post by: SniperDanWA on December 18, 2014, 02:25:31 PM: Very sorry. Prayers your way.
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Post by: Fl0und3rz on December 18, 2014, 02:26:52 PM: My condolences. Very sorry for your loss.
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Post by: Skillet on December 18, 2014, 02:28:03 PM: I am so sorry. That is a tremendous loss.
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Post by: CavemantheHunter on December 18, 2014, 02:34:28 PM: So sorry for your loss. Prayers being sent your way.
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Post by: Fastass350 on December 18, 2014, 02:53:35 PM: Gut wrenching just reading about it. Sorry for your loss man, thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Stay strong.
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Post by: Red Ryder on December 18, 2014, 02:55:58 PM: Sorry to hear of your family's loss. Nobody knows when they are going to go. I lost my Dad 23 years ago and I miss him as much now as I did then.

You will reflect back on the many good things your Dad passed on to you. It sounds like your Dad arranged to share his time and interests with his family. It is now your turn to do the same. All those family get togethers and trips are now your model to follow. When you make decisions in the future, you will think about what your Dad might have done and factor that in. I hope that you have some fun and insightful stories to share with his grandchildren because it is through you that they will get to know him.

Sudden losses are far harder to take than when you can see it coming. I would suggest putting together a picture board for his funeral. It will help all there to celebrate the passage of a good man.

Again, my condolences to your family.
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Post by: 250savage on December 18, 2014, 03:41:43 PM: Sorry for your loss. Prayers sent.
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Post by: carpsniperg2 on December 18, 2014, 04:06:31 PM: Very sorry for your loss, prayers sent.
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Post by: spikehunter on December 18, 2014, 04:07:51 PM: I feel for you part you partner :'(
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Post by: Encore 280 on December 18, 2014, 04:09:20 PM: So sorry for your loss. I lost both my parents back in '91 and '92 and I still think about them especially during hunting seasons. The next few days and weeks are going to be tough but you'll make it. My condolences to you and your family. Take care.
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Post by: bknilvr00 on December 18, 2014, 04:15:31 PM: Having lost my father in the recent past I know how you feel. It's not easy, it's certainly not fair, but its the cards we have been dealt. The best thing you can do is carry on, and know that while he is no longer physically with with you, he is in your heart and mind. It ate me up for the longest time, I was 21, he was 39 when he passed. It's been just shy of three years to the day when he passed. It gets easier, you accept it, and time marches on. The biggest thing to come from of it, is that I can only hope that I have as big an impact on my soon to be daughters life, as my dad did on mine. There are some great people here, many who have gone through the same. While I myself am guilty of the opposite, talk to somebody, anybody, because it will help you more than you can know.

My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Post by: deerhunter_98520 on December 18, 2014, 04:37:57 PM: I'm so sorry for your loss...prayers to you and your family
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Post by: rtspring on December 18, 2014, 04:57:40 PM: I would imagine nothing any of us say or do can help you. But sorry to hear this. I dread ever getting that call. Hang in there.
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Post by: scottfrick on December 18, 2014, 05:50:29 PM: My dad was 46 years old. Leaving behind me (27) my brother (25) and sister (23) the three of us are his blood. Then there's 2 more younger sisters and 1 more younger brother. He was like a dad to all 3 of them. Just doesn't feel right, he was trying to do the right thing and it just backed fired on him. He's suppose to go old and after having a long life. My dad loved hunting, he was very successful when it came to elk hunting. I feel like he knew where the elk were every season. Man he was lucky, in his words " it's all skill son". Thank you to everyone with the kind words. It helps a lot!!
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Post by: wildweeds on December 18, 2014, 07:32:42 PM: That's rough,Condolences for you and your siblings.
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Post by: dewandgin on December 18, 2014, 07:37:59 PM: My Condolences and prayers to you and your family.
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Post by: Mark Brenckle on December 18, 2014, 08:11:27 PM: So sorry for your family's loss. Keep posting stories of your hunts and meaningful times together. I lost my father when I was young, but I remember fishing with him, going to work with him and working on the farm with him. It's been nearly 40 years, you'll never stop missing him.
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Post by: jay.sharkbait on December 18, 2014, 08:22:13 PM: " I just lost my friend, my hunting partner and the man I am proud to call my father"

You sure?

You might not get anymore texts or be able to call him on the phone anymore.....But he's still around.
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Post by: silverdalesauer on December 18, 2014, 08:35:50 PM: Sorry for your loss, Scott.

Praying for you and your family tonight. If you need someone to talk to, I'm willing to listen.

"Lord, right now when nothing like this seems to make sense, we pray for Scott and his family in this tragic loss of his father. We ask that you would comfort their hearts, as they remember the good and wonderful memories of their dad. Would you give them moments of laughter, joy and thankfulness as they ponder his life and help them now in the sadness and tears as they process the emotions, the loss and the loneliness in due time. We ask for restful, peaceful sleep tonight for Scott and his family. In Jesus' name, Amen."
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Post by: Windwalker on December 18, 2014, 08:39:13 PM: Quote from: silverdalesauer on December 18, 2014, 08:35:50 PM
Sorry for your loss, Scott.

Praying for you and your family tonight. If you need someone to talk to, I'm willing to listen.

"Lord, right now when nothing like this seems to make sense, we pray for Scott and his family in this tragic loss of his father. We ask that you would comfort their hearts, as they remember the good and wonderful memories of their dad. Would you give them moments of laughter, joy and thankfulness as they ponder his life and help them now in the sadness and tears as they process the emotions, the loss and the loneliness in due time. We ask for restful, peaceful sleep tonight for Scott and his family. In Jesus' name, Amen."

Amen -
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Post by: trophyhunt on December 18, 2014, 08:45:41 PM: Scott, very sorry for your loss. I believe it was you and your dad I met at the top of Corral pass several years ago when you guys shot a funky looking 5 point, it was the year someone locked the gate at the bottom. I'm 45 my self, way too young to pass. I can't imagine how it feels, didn't know you guys much at all but I am truly sorry for your loss. God Bless.
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Post by: Birdguy on December 18, 2014, 08:49:20 PM: I now how you feel, my Dad was a little older than your Dad, 2 years 5 months and 10 days ago I got a call from my parents house. I was told to meet them at the hospital...before I could slam on a pair of shorts and my shoes I got another call to just come to the house to be with Mom. Worst day of my life :'(. I thik about him multiple times everyday. I credit him for all I know and who I am. He is and will always will be my hero and role model. There is not a thing in my life I do not see my Dad in. He is with all us kids all the time, I know Mom misses him the most as they were together just under 50 years. Time will help with the pain, the shock lasts for a lot longer....not sure it will ever go away but part of me does not want it to. It is almost as if I really make peace with it I lost another part of him. I hold those moments when he comes to mind so close now. I get real joy in sharing the moments with my siblings and certain times with Mom (gotta be careful what you share with Mom, she loves it but sometimes a little sensitive).
If you have someone to talk to take that oppertunity, the right person to talk to will help. Keep your Dad alive in all you do and soon enough you will feel great about what you have done to honor him. Your kids will know him as you knew him and ther are some special things about him you willlikely find in your kids, I do quite often.

You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers, if you have the chance keep an eye on the rest of your family they might need it.
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Post by: BOWHUNTER45 on December 18, 2014, 09:30:16 PM: Sorry Bud ..Very tuff situation .
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Post by: lee on December 19, 2014, 05:13:52 AM: It's amazing how painful it is, .... birth and death are as natural as sun up and sun down, .... but dang it sure can hurt.

Years ago my Sister-in-law lost her Mother and Sister in the same week. She said something that has stuck wid' me all these years:

"The Lord will not put more on your shoulders than HE knows you can carry"

Sometimes we will question this but, ..... keep the faith my friend.
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Post by: rasbo on December 19, 2014, 05:31:50 AM: so sorry for your loss..So far in my life losing dad was the worst.Friend Dad hunting and fishing partner,and the only thing in life that was mine..I have great memories together that helps me in those times of need,Im sure you have them same memories,and your father is smiling down on you..Dont think for a moment he is not with you at all times..
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Post by: Fish4Fun on December 19, 2014, 08:51:35 AM: Sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad, it has been 20 years since I got the call to get up to the house. Like you he was a Dad, mentor, hunting partner, and above all a Best Friend. Not a day goes by that I don't think about him.
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Post by: Knocker of rocks on December 19, 2014, 09:03:23 AM: Sunday will be one year since my dad died.
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Post by: scottfrick on December 19, 2014, 10:06:15 AM: Thank you everyone with your kind words. It means the world to me. Never in a lifetime could I ever imagine how hard this was going to be. Close friends to the family made a go fund me account on Facebook to help raise money for a nice funeral. It's amazing how many people have liked and shared it. I just want to give my dad a funeral he deserves and one that will never be forgotten.
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Post by: Rich_S on December 19, 2014, 10:35:04 AM: The right words just won't come to me. Live the rest of your life in his honor. Make him proud!
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Post by: boneaddict on December 19, 2014, 10:39:14 AM: Day three, and I am sure you arent feeling any better. Hang in there.
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Post by: scottfrick on December 19, 2014, 10:52:00 AM: Quote from: boneaddict on December 19, 2014, 10:39:14 AM
Day three, and I am sure you arent feeling any better. Hang in there.
I'm still in shock bone. Day 3 is a lot harder. None of this is going to be real until I lay eyes on my dad. Either late tonight or tomorrow. Losing your first best friend and idol is a pain unlike any other. Growing up you believe your dad is superman, nothing can hurt superman. He will always be there no matter what. Well as you get older you realize life is short. You gotta keep hold of your loved ones and cherish every minute with them. The last time I saw my dad was Friday nov 7 2014. He texted me big bull down and needed help hanging it and skinning it. I will never forget that day.
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Post by: Kittman on December 19, 2014, 11:20:25 AM: I am sorry to hear of your loss, & want to wish you and your family better days ahead.
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Post by: Birdguy on December 19, 2014, 05:05:09 PM: You are spot on Scott. Keep things as real as you can, the numbness, shock, and disbelief are protecting you. Remember you will need/place to grieve. It is a very important part of the process. Be ready for the grieving process to hit those around you at different times as well. Like I said earlier I was at the house before the sheriff and got to hold my Dad's hand and have a few minutes with him as did my Mom and siblings before they pronouced him gone. Seeing him may not be what it takes to allow you to realize what has happened. Just try to be ready to deal with the next step when it hits you. Hang in there you know you got a place to share and vent if needed.
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Post by: coachcw on December 19, 2014, 05:18:36 PM: I'm impressed that you have been able to post as you have , so sorry for the loss , your family is in my thoughts.
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Post by: scottfrick on December 19, 2014, 07:27:14 PM: Quote from: coachcw on December 19, 2014, 05:18:36 PM
I'm impressed that you have been able to post as you have , so sorry for the loss , your family is in my thoughts.
It's not easy too but he loved hunting and everyone on this forum shares the same passion as he did. This forum is like one big hunting family. Making it easier for me to express myself and feelings.
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Post by: DRENALINJUNKIE on December 19, 2014, 08:33:33 PM: Can't imagine what your going through. I'm sorry for your loss and if there is anything we can do to help we are here. Stay strong.
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Post by: Bigshooter on December 19, 2014, 08:39:40 PM: Quote from: boneaddict on December 18, 2014, 11:21:06 AM
VERY SORRY! A day I dread something fierce. :sry: :(

:yeah:
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Post by: erk444 on December 19, 2014, 09:09:27 PM: Sorry for your loss. I just lost my dad back in march. It was weird hunting without him this late season. Time takes away the pain, but memories last forever.
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Post by: trophyhunt on December 19, 2014, 09:18:20 PM: Scott, is your dad's name Sonny? Again, very sorry to hear of your family's loss.
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Post by: scottfrick on December 19, 2014, 11:46:25 PM: Quote from: trophyhunt on December 19, 2014, 09:18:20 PM
Scott, is your dad's name Sonny? Again, very sorry to hear of your family's loss.
Yes he is sonny frick.
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Post by: csaaphill on December 19, 2014, 11:54:18 PM: Chin up man prayers sent. what an awfull thing to have to go through. :'(
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Post by: Elkaholic daWg on December 20, 2014, 06:40:07 AM: Sorry to hear of your loss.
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Post by: fishngamereaper on December 20, 2014, 07:04:26 AM: Sad to hear. Hang in there. Remember the good times and try and laugh. It helps. And dont try and make any sense of it, some things in life you just cant figure out. My dad passed in 06, completley unexpected and way to young, so I kind of know where your at.

He may be gone but he will always be with you.
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Post by: 3006 on December 22, 2014, 05:19:47 PM: Scott, I'm really sorry for your loss.

I'm also really impressed and thankful you shared what you're going thru. I've been where you are 5 1/2 years ago and your story brought back tears and pain like it happened yesterday. I wanted to share something I learned while dealing with grief. I read somewhere that when a son looses his father it is the second worst loss you can suffer. The first being the loss of a child. It sounds like your dad was a great dad and that makes the pain even worse. It also justifies every tear, scream, fist thru a wall, stare into space for hours, feeling numb, and any other way you deal with grief.

I can only recommend that you reach out to loved ones and lean on them. Keep talking. Share stories with relatives or friends. It helps. Sometimes isolation is helpful but remember to reach out to those who are hurting from this too. Helping them can help you.

Again I'm sorry for your loss and I'll be praying for you.
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Post by: scottfrick on December 23, 2014, 06:56:49 PM: Knees I recieved today is he should be arriving at seatac airport tomorrow evening at 5:09 pm. The few days seem to be getting a little bit better. Less tears and more smiles talking about old memories with the younger siblings. It's tough not to be stressed when it seems like everyone wants more and more money. And we haven't even been able to plan the funeral yet. It's unbelievable how expensive a funeral can be. We are having a breakfast banquet at the Eagles in Wilkeson wa, Saturday morning 7-11. There will be biscuits and gravy, eggs and pancakes. Meals are 10$ a person. There is also going to be raffles going on. We are hoping to raise some money to help out with funeral arrangements and what not. Any one is welcome!!