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Title: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on November 18, 2021, 12:03:43 PM
I had to send my sweet Maggie on without me his morning. The large animal vet made a “farm” visit to the house for me. It cost a lot, but it’s worth every penny to me so Maggie didn’t have to have her last moments in a cold strange place she’s never been, after a car ride she hates. Instead she passed on in my lap in her spot in the living room. We had 14 years of adventures in Washington, Oregon, California, Idaho, Montana and recently North Dakota. She sat beside me every single day during my three year battle with cancer. Just before Halloween she turned crippled & lost control of bathroom & was in pain a lot of the time. He vet said she did something to her back- she could feel the vertebrae messed up where the nerves for the back legs & bathroom functions come out. She said there were things we could try but they’re expensive & little chance for success in getting her walking again at her age.

She sent us home with some muscle relaxers & pain killers for Maggie & that helped a lot to make her comfortable.  Here a couple pictures of our last adventure together on Tuesday this week. I love & miss my best friend so much, I don’t know what I’ll do without her.

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Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on November 18, 2021, 12:05:44 PM
For some reason the picture is upside down & I can’t figure out how to fix it.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: 2MANY on November 18, 2021, 12:06:59 PM
"It cost a lot, but it’s worth every penny to me so Maggie didn’t have to have her last moments in a cold strange place she’s never been, after a car ride she hates. Instead she passed on in my lap in her spot in the living room."

Damn straight.
You sir did the right thing.
Sorry for your loss.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: 7mmfan on November 18, 2021, 12:08:27 PM
So sorry for your loss. You certainly made the right call.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: paguy on November 18, 2021, 12:09:22 PM
So sorry.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: fishngamereaper on November 18, 2021, 12:14:59 PM
Sad day for sure.. Sorry for your loss..

Love dogs more than most people... every single one I've lost it seems like yesterday...
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: mburrows on November 18, 2021, 12:17:20 PM
Beautiful dog. My heart goes out to you. It’s brutal but take comfort in knowing Maggie lived a life most dogs don’t get the opportunity to do.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: pianoman9701 on November 18, 2021, 12:18:07 PM
That's such a hard parting. I know it's a tough day for you. I'm glad you were able to get those years together. RIP in doggie heaven, Maggie.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: salt n sage90 on November 18, 2021, 12:18:49 PM
Its a story as old as time but the sting never lessens. Sorry for your loss. Glad you had 14 years to make memories.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: NorseNW on November 18, 2021, 12:20:16 PM
Very sorry for your loss.  These posts are always hard being one that loves dogs far more than humans as well.  Sounds like Maggie had a great life with wonderful people to enjoy it with.  Cherish everyone of those adventures as you know Maggie does.  Prayers to you and Maggie
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: RobinHoodlum on November 18, 2021, 12:42:49 PM
Having been down that road a couple times myself, I feel your pain and am sorry. She did right by you and vice-versa. you let her go on with dignity and great respect
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: Blacktail Sniper on November 18, 2021, 01:58:38 PM
Sorry for your loss, sounds like she had the best life she could with you.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: D-Rock425 on November 18, 2021, 02:52:05 PM
Worse part about owning pets.  Sorry for your loss.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: Encore 280 on November 18, 2021, 03:21:33 PM
The later you are getting home the happier they are to see you, unconditional love at it's best. Sorry for your loss. Get another one to help ease the pain. It won't replace her but it'll help fill the void. RIP Maggie
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: BD1 on November 18, 2021, 03:28:13 PM
So sorry...it is some of the most intense pain that can be felt in life. There is no doubt she was special. Prayers and positive thoughts coming your way.
Take care
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on November 18, 2021, 03:34:58 PM
Thanks everyone. Lots of good people on here.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: huntnfmly on November 18, 2021, 05:41:19 PM
So very sorry for your loss prayers sent your way and you absolutely did the right thing
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: jackson7 on November 18, 2021, 06:16:42 PM
So sorry. 14 years is a lot of years. Mine was  that age when the time came. Hunted through her 13th year.
Picked up another about 8 months later. Best friends in the world and no college tuition.
No rush, you will know when time is right. If you need to get out, let me know and we can put something together.
God bless, Jackson.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: Backstrap on November 18, 2021, 06:52:11 PM
Maggie was a real beauty. I’m glad you were able to send her off in a gentle and peaceful manner. Rest In Peace Maggie. Brighter days ahead...
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: vandeman17 on November 18, 2021, 06:54:28 PM
No faster way to get me to tear up than posts like these. Sorry for your loss. It sounds like she lived an amazing life and will be a part of you forever.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: cem3434 on November 18, 2021, 07:15:57 PM
Sorry for your loss.  We put down our 14 year old chocolate lab on Monday, so I feel your pain.  :'(
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: carpsniperg2 on November 18, 2021, 07:22:36 PM
Its tough to say goodbye to loyal good dogs that we spend a large part of our life with and they become part of our family.
Sorry for your loss.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: Dan-o on November 18, 2021, 08:09:50 PM
 :'(
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: huntnfmly on November 18, 2021, 08:27:11 PM
Sorry for your loss.  We put down our 14 year old chocolate lab on Monday, so I feel your pain.  :'(
So sorry for your loss prayers sent
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on November 19, 2021, 07:39:58 AM
Sorry you have to go through this, too cem34.

Back in August I put a deposit on a lab puppy for the spring, but I don’t feel like I want it, anymore.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: ClemsonJosh on November 19, 2021, 07:53:40 AM
Sorry you have to go through this, too cem34.

Back in August I put a deposit on a lab puppy for the spring, but I don’t feel like I want it, anymore.
Maggie looks like a sweet girl and sounds like she had a good run. I put down my chocolate last year and got a puppy in the same timeframe due the spurring/encouraging from my wife. I sure am glad to have another chocolate dude running around with me.  The pup is not the same but he’s special in his own right.

Cheers to good dogs.


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Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on November 19, 2021, 07:53:57 AM
Thanks to whoever fixed the picture for me.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: ClemsonJosh on November 19, 2021, 07:54:00 AM
Sorry you have to go through this, too cem34.

Back in August I put a deposit on a lab puppy for the spring, but I don’t feel like I want it, anymore.
Maggie looks like a sweet girl and sounds like she had a good run. I put down my chocolate last year and got a puppy in the same timeframe due the spurring/encouraging from my wife. I sure am glad to have another chocolate dude running around with me.  The pup is not the same but he’s special in his own right.

Cheers to good dogs.


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Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: cem3434 on November 19, 2021, 06:09:53 PM
Sorry you have to go through this, too cem34.

Back in August I put a deposit on a lab puppy for the spring, but I don’t feel like I want it, anymore.

Sorry that you're going through this too and the new pup won't be the same as Maggie.  With that being said, I think time will help and getting a new little buddy will be a welcome change in a couple of months.  They are the most loyal friend that I have ever had and I couldn't imagine not having a dog around the house. Austin (my chocolate) was the 4th dog I have put down in the last 20 years and it never gets easier, but the pain from losing my dogs over the years certainly doesn't outweigh all the joy that they have given my family and myself.

We actually picked up another black lab pup in March of 2020 because we knew his time was getting shorter. He was diagnosed with lung cancer in February 2021, so he had a good life and I wasn't going to let him suffer once he started coughing daily.  I'm glad we picked our other lab up looking back on it now as she has made it a lot easier for my kids (6 and 8 )to cope with losing him since he has been there for their entire lives.  Honestly the hardest part about it was watching my 8 year old daughter bawling her eyes out as she said goodbye to him the last time. My wife is still struggling with it as he was one of our "kids" before we had kids, so she is still taking it hard.

It's always tough putting them down as it is hard decision to make, but I knew his time had come and it right thing to do since his quality of life was quickly being erased. It sucks and I miss him like my previous dogs, but its the unfortunate part of being a pet owner.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on November 21, 2021, 09:23:54 AM
Thanks for that. I’ll take your advice & not make a decision until spring time when the puppy is ready.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: highside74 on November 21, 2021, 11:02:22 AM
Nothing teaches about the heartbreak of loss and the ability to love again like being a dog owner. Sorry for your loss.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: huntnfmly on November 21, 2021, 12:24:32 PM
Sorry you have to go through this, too cem34.

Back in August I put a deposit on a lab puppy for the spring, but I don’t feel like I want it, anymore.
Last December I had to put down my springer and was in the same state of mind as you not wanting a new pup
In March I put down a deposit and the breeder sent me pics as he grew and picked him up in May it was still tough but I’m glad I did it helped a lot.
I still miss my other dog and still can’t look at pics without getting choked up even 11 months later but my new dog has helped fill that hole
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: Schmalzfam on December 10, 2021, 09:45:09 PM
Sounds like you and Maggie share a special bond. They sure are there for us when we need them. You were there for her, when she needed you. Letting go is the hardest thing. They let us know when it's time. The two of you will forever share those memories.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on December 16, 2021, 04:53:53 PM
We were pretty tight. It’s been tough, I sure miss her.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: cem3434 on December 16, 2021, 09:17:56 PM
Agreed the last month has been tough after putting our chocolate down. I'm glad we got a pup last year as she is making it easier to cope with him being gone and is turning into one heck of a duck dog too! Keep that deposit on the pup and I think you'll come around to having a new buddy in a couple more months when the pain isn't so fresh.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on December 17, 2021, 02:20:10 PM
Thanks. That’s an awesome picture! Great looking pup.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: Happy Gilmore on January 02, 2022, 09:51:42 PM
Do you know the Chris Stapleton song? It gets me every time.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: lokidog on January 02, 2022, 10:18:13 PM
Sorry I missed this and sorry for the loss of your buddy.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: bracer40 on January 03, 2022, 07:44:30 AM
So sorry for your loss. She sounded like a hell of a dog!
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on January 03, 2022, 03:41:10 PM
I’m not familiar with that Chris Stapleton song. I do like his music, a lot, though. Got a picture from the breeder the week before Christmas, so there’s about 5 weeks before I have to make a decision. Haven’t even been able to take her bed out of the living room or crate out of the kitchen yet
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: Timberstalker on January 03, 2022, 03:43:44 PM
Do you know the Chris Stapleton song? It gets me every time.

Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on January 03, 2022, 03:59:05 PM
Yeah, that made me cry
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: lokidog on January 05, 2022, 06:52:52 PM
Yeah, that made me cry

If you did not cry at that, you would not be human, or at least a dog person....

We were going to wait a while after we had to say goodbye to Loki, it ended up being a very short while....
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: 2MANY on January 05, 2022, 07:08:11 PM
Absolutely get a pup.
It's the only cure.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on January 06, 2022, 12:49:29 PM
Picture from the breeder. Starting to feel more receptive to getting her.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: 2MANY on January 06, 2022, 01:06:00 PM
Sweet.
One of those is waiting to meet you!
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on February 09, 2022, 09:52:38 AM
I’m glad I took your guys’ advice. The breeder doesn’t think he’s doing another litter this year, so if I don’t get it, no dog that knows the hunting routing until 2024. So I’m headed over there to pick her up on Friday. She won’t be Maggie, but it’ll be fun to see what she becomes.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: 2MANY on February 09, 2022, 10:54:53 AM
Awesome.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: huntnfmly on February 09, 2022, 11:56:59 AM
Very cool glad to hear and congrats on the new pup
It will help alot👍
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: jackson7 on February 09, 2022, 07:29:33 PM
sent a pm, but don't see it. hope new dog works out. however, if you are interested in another dog [shorthair], let me know. I know of a litter that should be here in couple months if all goes well. good luck. jackson PM works best
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on February 10, 2022, 05:32:59 PM
I don’t see it in there. In a couple years I might be looking for a pointing breed. In the meantime this lab will keep me pretty busy I think.
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: huntnfmly on February 10, 2022, 06:43:45 PM
I don’t see it in there. In a couple years I might be looking for a pointing breed. In the meantime this lab will keep me pretty busy I think.
👍
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: BD1 on February 10, 2022, 07:26:03 PM
You never "Replace" them...but a new dog was what I needed when I lost my Abbey. After 7 years, I think of her and smile instead of crying...she is legendary to me. My little girl (now 7) Cedar is as much of part of our family as Abbey. Different? Yes...but just like Abbey, I can't even imagine life without her. Enjoy the new pup, resist comparing and just know that your love will transfer to an wonderful, new member of your family. Post pictures for those of us that love the journey.   :tup:
Cheers
Mike BD1
Title: Re: Goodbye Sweet Maggie
Post by: follow maggie on February 11, 2022, 07:38:58 PM
You’re right about that. I’ll have to keep reminding myself not to compare them.
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