Author Topic: Sad News (Read 14195 times)

Fishnclifff · « **on:** September 23, 2013, 10:20:29 PM »

Today I learned that my "adopted" son, David Glidden, is no longer with us.
He was a troubled teen and my son was his best friend. When there was trouble at home, the sheriff would bring him to my house for time out. The more time he spent with us, the less frequent those trips were. I started him hunting ducks and fishing.He eventually stayed with us towards the end of high school.
He got messed up with the drug culture in Seattle and disappeared for many years.
One day he reappeared and tried to start anew. He got cleaned up, got a good job, eventually got married, and had 2 beautiful children. We had many conversations on how to go about life and be a good father.
He eventually fell back into old ways. This time alcohol and not hard drugs.
He got drunk at his house in Spokane, chased the cat outside with a toy pistol, one night. Someone called the cops.
In all the chaos, he was shot 5 times and paralyzed from the chest down.
He was living back in the Seattle area.
Because of his injuries, he was on some heavy meds. He was becoming more paranoid each day and delusional
Some time this past Sunday, he took his own life.
My heart knows he is in no pain anymore and free from his demons.
My heart is aching for my real son, Clifford, because he had just talked to him that day and said there was no indications.
I would like to ask those with kids, Love them, listen to their joy, their sorrows, their fears. Help them or try to get them help if the need is there.
David was not my blood, but he was a special child, with imagination, creativity, and spirit.
I have and will always treasure the artwork and a hand made knife he gave me. He asked me once if I still had them, I said always. He said good, so you don't forget me.
I will never forget you son

hoyt5199 · « **Reply #1 on:** September 23, 2013, 10:22:47 PM »

Very sad news. You and your family are in our prayers..

MacAttack · « **Reply #2 on:** September 23, 2013, 10:24:04 PM »

Sorry for your loss.

Wacenturion · « **Reply #3 on:** September 23, 2013, 10:32:12 PM »

Sorry to hear that. Children today are surely at risk, unlike 50-60 years ago. It is wonderful that he had you and your son in his life. I'm sure it gave him comfort.

wildweeds · « **Reply #4 on:** September 23, 2013, 10:34:09 PM »

Condolences,we are dealing with something similar in my house right now, a young gentleman that my wife knows through her daughter took his own life with a pistol he stole at a bachelor party that did not include alcohol or drugs last weekend,the boys went shooting in the hills,he snatched the weapon with nobody noticing and wandered up the hillside,he was found the next morning when he did not awnser phone calls,his problems stemmed from being sexually molested by his father as a child.His father shot himself,he shot himself and his brother(also molested) had a gun "accident" last year.

Sawbuck · « **Reply #5 on:** September 23, 2013, 10:36:59 PM »

Sad, sorry for your loss. You should be commended for being there for him throughout his life and all of the ups and downs. What a testimony of what being a dad is all about

Bigluke1981 · « **Reply #6 on:** September 23, 2013, 10:38:01 PM »

Very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to him and his family!

EyeTooth · « **Reply #7 on:** September 23, 2013, 10:39:39 PM »

I'm very sorry to hear about David.
My thoughts are also with you, your family, and his family.

carpsniperg2 · « **Reply #8 on:** September 23, 2013, 10:42:07 PM »

Sorry for your loss.

SniperDanWA · « **Reply #9 on:** September 23, 2013, 10:54:11 PM »

I'm sorry for the loss to you, his wife and kids. He was blessed by you and you by him. You saw something in him and made that come out even more. I wish more folks did what you do. May he rest in peace

6.8mmARHunter · « **Reply #10 on:** September 23, 2013, 11:02:20 PM »

I never know what to say...

Sorry for your loss.

Peace to you.

RIP to David.

Blacklab · « **Reply #11 on:** September 24, 2013, 05:49:49 AM »

So sorry for your loss. I will pray for peace comfort and strength for all in involved.

pianoman9701 · « **Reply #12 on:** September 24, 2013, 05:54:39 AM »

Sorry to hear about your loss, Fishn.

Skyvalhunter · « **Reply #13 on:** September 24, 2013, 05:57:54 AM »

Sorry to hear about the loss. I am sure others would agree his time here on this planet was extended and more pleasurable because you lent out a helping hand. May he rest in peace.

HUNTINCOUPLE · « **Reply #14 on:** September 24, 2013, 06:01:06 AM »

Sorry about your lose.

coachcw · « **Reply #15 on:** September 24, 2013, 06:14:33 AM »

My condolences to your brother. I will say remember all the good times and laughs , there's plenty of bad stuff in this world that we often dwell on . we live for those great times spent with family and friends ... Rest assured that he is not longer in pain .

Fishnclifff · « **Reply #16 on:** September 24, 2013, 12:51:34 PM »

Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers.

Bean Counter · « **Reply #17 on:** September 24, 2013, 12:53:56 PM »

. *prayers for his children*

boneaddict · « **Reply #18 on:** September 24, 2013, 01:03:01 PM »

Thanks for being a positive influence in this mans life. Praying for your family and his.

seth30 · « **Reply #19 on:** September 24, 2013, 01:13:24 PM »

Quote from: boneaddict on September 24, 2013, 01:03:01 PM

Thanks for being a positive influence in this mans life. Praying for your family and his.

hntrspud · « **Reply #20 on:** September 24, 2013, 01:42:45 PM »

Quote from: Skyvalhunter on September 24, 2013, 05:57:54 AM

Sorry to hear about the loss. I am sure others would agree his time here on this planet was extended and more pleasurable because you lent out a helping hand. May he rest in peace.

He was only able to have those children and a wife, and a longer life than what he would have had if it wasnt for you and your family. My heart goes out to all those involved. Very very sorry

Fowlweather25 · « **Reply #21 on:** September 24, 2013, 01:58:26 PM »

Im very sorry for your loss, i hope you find peace in your situation. Times like this can be devastating. Keep your chin up.

Curly · « **Reply #22 on:** September 24, 2013, 02:00:42 PM »

Sorry for you loss.

pashok23 · « **Reply #23 on:** September 24, 2013, 04:21:48 PM »

Soory for your loss...

viva_che1363 · « **Reply #24 on:** September 24, 2013, 04:28:36 PM »

sorry for you loss. sending prayers your way. may he rest in peace

MLBowhunting · « **Reply #25 on:** September 24, 2013, 05:02:44 PM »

Sorry for your loss

deerhunter_98520 · « **Reply #26 on:** September 24, 2013, 05:22:50 PM »

so sorry for your loss

Nilehunter · « **Reply #27 on:** September 24, 2013, 05:26:38 PM »

Sorry for your loss, prayers sent.

steen · « **Reply #28 on:** September 24, 2013, 05:36:25 PM »

I'm listening to Rascal Flatts Changed while reading your story and it brings tears to my eyes. Sorry for your and your family!'s loss. I've raised 3 of my own and 3 step children and have a little understanding. Praying for you and your family

3nails · « **Reply #29 on:** September 24, 2013, 05:57:50 PM »

Sounds like he had a rough go. It's real good knowing men like you help when it's needed. Both your lives were better because of your love.

bracer40 · « **Reply #30 on:** September 24, 2013, 06:04:18 PM »

Quote from: Sawbuck on September 23, 2013, 10:36:59 PM

Sad, sorry for your loss. You should be commended for being there for him throughout his life and all of the ups and downs. What a testimony of what being a dad is all about

Your role in this man's life is a testimony to how to be a father to not only your own children but to all you've shared your life with, including even to those of us briefly sharing it from your post.
May you find peace in your time outdoors and in with your loved ones.

PlateauNDN · « **Reply #31 on:** September 24, 2013, 06:07:41 PM »

Sorry for your loss and by my standards you are and were his father. My prayers and condolensces.

jcswamp · « **Reply #32 on:** September 25, 2013, 11:57:57 AM »

Sorry to hear that, my condolences. I grew up with a guy who went by that name out on Camano Island, he left highschool around 2000-2001, i am sorry for your loss even if it wasn't the same guy i knew. The David i knew was a great guy who had the same sort of problems, i always hoped he would get everything together for himself. Never good to hear something like this and i hope everone involved can find a way to stay strong and carry on.

scout/sniper · « **Reply #33 on:** September 25, 2013, 12:04:42 PM »

I am so sorry for your loss.
Losing a loved one is very painful, even for the toughest of us.
My family's prayers go out to you and yours.
Sometimes the most amazing things come from tragedy and I wish you peace and healing my friend.

jagermiester · « **Reply #34 on:** September 25, 2013, 01:06:38 PM »

I just said a prayer for you and your family. Hopefully you can stay close to your son in the upcoming months and talk A-Lot.

Fishnclifff · « **Reply #35 on:** September 25, 2013, 02:59:08 PM »

Quote from: jcswamp on September 25, 2013, 11:57:57 AM

Sorry to hear that, my condolences. I grew up with a guy who went by that name out on Camano Island, he left highschool around 2000-2001, i am sorry for your loss even if it wasn't the same guy i knew. The David i knew was a great guy who had the same sort of problems, i always hoped he would get everything together for himself. Never good to hear something like this and i hope everone involved can find a way to stay strong and carry on.

This is probably the same David. He was from Camano.

The services are Wednesday, October 2, 2013 at 1:00PM Evans Funeral Chapel 1105 32nd Street Anacortes, WA 98221 360-293-3311.

He had some chances in his life and he honestly struggled to make changes he needed.
The evil and darkness of the drug culture was very strong.
We will miss him.

Netminder01 · « **Reply #36 on:** September 25, 2013, 03:04:41 PM »

Sad loss for sure, thanks for sharing. I really feel bad for the two kids he leaves behind and hope they have the support and tenacity they need to be happy.

jyerxa · « **Reply #37 on:** September 25, 2013, 05:35:13 PM »

Sending prayers for you and all of your family. So sad for the wife and kids. Just so sad.

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