I've played with more than a few overbore cartridges over the years so I'll share some of what I've learned.
Big cases like the RUM or Nosler case are more efficient and much easier to tune loads for when heavy for caliber bullets are used. While velocity sells with cartridges like the 26 Nosler, the cartridge will perform better with a 140+ grain bullet. Plus, running 130gr bullets at full throttle can easily burn a barrel in 300 rounds or less; I've personally witnessed this multiple times.
Also consider that some of the lighter bullets can't hold up to the velocity of the 26 Nosler. Ballistic Tips and Accubonds do well but Bergers don't always hold up to 3500+ fps.
You didn't mention what primer you're using but the Federal 215 is the optimum in this case. Some of the super slow powders can be hard to ignite even with standard magnum rifle primers.
With as many loads as you've tried something should have shown potential. At this point I'd reach out to Cooper and see what they have to say. Even a top name maker puts out a lemon every once in a while. I have a barrel right now that should be capable of much better accuracy than I'm getting. After trying multiple loads and different optics I've decided that it's just a bad barrel. It happens.
Where are you located? Maybe there's somebody near you who can act as a second set of eyes to go over the gun with you.