Update: With a gentle pull of the pliers straight down, I was able to get it off with the socket.
How bad is it, doc?
Definitely don't try to tap anything. You really need to be looking at the condition of the pan itself and not the plug. Those plugs are designed to do that. You'll ruin the plug before you ruin the pan. What's the threads in the pan look like?
To be honest they kind of looked like the drain plug. but, I got the new one in there!
SUCCESS.Thank you, Hive Mind. You have helped me stay true to my inner city, Section 8 Housing roots.