My wife started with a Beretta .25 auto, and loves it. She wanted a bigger gun for camping, ATV rides, and at times for carry. She tried a few different 9mms, and recoil was a factor, and I thought she had lost all interest in finding a larger pistol. Then, we looked at the S&W EZ .380. No one will ever take the pistol away from her, as she LOVES shooting it. It really is a nice pistol. It is truly easy for her, or any shooter to use and enjoy. Designed with Women in mind, but truly a great pistol for all shooters. When we got the .380 it was not offered in 9mm yet.