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Nice thing I have found with the American Pioneer Powder is that I don't have to worry much with fouling. APP claims to have shot over 5000 shots through a rifle without cleaning the bore. Don't think I will go for that but I have never had a problem loading even after a bunch of shots and accuracy doesn't suffer much.
I have all the same issues as you. I picked up a small tee handle that attaches to the ramrod to help my grip and also ware a glove. Having good luck with T7 mag pellets 50gr each and musket caps, 100gr charge. Very happy at 100, 200, and just for fun 300yards! Over the crony, around 2000 fps. I do find that they load easier after the first shot. I'll take the accuracy and not worry about the rest. After all a little adrenalin goes a long ways!