You do not have to fill your first tag (main tag) prior to filling your second tag. You can fill them in any order.
Your main tag is only good for the General season, in a GMU that is open for the general season. I dont know of any part of the state (other than permit areas) that are open for deer November 1-12. You will have to go there or somewhere else during the regular general season (early or late) if you want to try to fill your first tag.
In the future, if you want to be able to fill both in one trip. Look for a 2nd deer permit that is open during the general season. The cool thing about that is many times a 2nd deer permit is for antlerless, so you usually have a good chance at tagging something, and possibly both. The downside is, it is probably crowded with people during the general season.