I'm good now.
I really can't explain it. It's never happened before.

Even after I was able to log off which after resetting safari for the tenth time and restarting the computer....it would show my user name on the list of members being online and my little square was geen.

Who knows??

As far as logging off it's just a habit, I log off of all sites that are password protected like the bank, email etc., as well as removing temp internet files etc.
Thanks for trying to help.