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Offline SniperDanWA

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Re: Son just isn't ready yet...
« Reply #15 on: October 15, 2011, 08:29:23 PM »
When I was little, my grandpa's 12ga Stevens breech load was ominous.  I watched my dad shoot coon, strays, a steer, pig, but I was always scared of that gun.  Heck, even today, that gun bruises up my shoulder.  My son loves it.  He likes my Mossberg more.  When I took him out to the range with the 06, he watched the kick and I saw hat I must have looked like with that 12ga.  He has taken to the 06 now, but he loves the 10-22 the best.  This is his first year with modern elk.  I think he is ready, 14.  I'll know when he sees the first one.

Keep up the family stuff, guys.  I know the kids will come through.  I know that my son will.  I know my 8yr od daughter will, just not sure my 12yr od girl will ever shoot again.  Got kicked in the chin while shooting clay this summer.
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Re: Son just isn't ready yet...
« Reply #16 on: October 15, 2011, 08:40:04 PM »

Although I support your decision to stay home, I would have still gone, just to camp and look around.
No pressure on him, just a camping trip.
My kids love to camp and I look forward to the day they have hunting licenses.
A weekend in the woods is way better than a weekend at home.
It is O.K. not to want to shoot something, that thought still goes through my head at "the moment", but not going out in the woods if you are not going hunting (or ready to kill)
seems to me like just giving up, and might instill a "forget it if I cannot get something" attitude.
I mean no offence, my kids are not ready yet, and I am still learning how to be a father myself (8 years)
But they go "hunting" without weapons now, if they were old enough to have a license and tag, and we had planned on going, we would still go.
They just don't "have" to shoot if/when presented with the opportunity.
I know I do not, and will not change plans to go camping just because someone doesn't want to shoot an animal.
I try to teach my kids that I am going to keep my word, and plans that are made days/weeks in advance are only changed in the event of an emergency.
As I said, it is O.K. if he did not want to hunt, but I would have still gone and sat around a campfire, talked to other hunters, maybe taken a walk and spent the time in the woods.
Who knows, he might have a change of heart, but staying at home,  :dunno:
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Re: Son just isn't ready yet...
« Reply #17 on: October 15, 2011, 09:36:47 PM »
He just didn't want to go. He camps with the scouts one weekend a month and i was surprised when he said he didn't even want to go camping. He has been in a funk lately.
I have been out of town all summer so we havn't spent alot of time together this summer. This was my first weekend off in a while so we are spending as a family at home.
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Re: Son just isn't ready yet...
« Reply #18 on: October 15, 2011, 10:33:27 PM »
Don't forget he's at that age where blacktail isn't the only tail on his mind. He probably has a girl he likes in the neighborhood and wanted to stay at home.

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Re: Son just isn't ready yet...
« Reply #19 on: October 16, 2011, 02:27:23 AM »
Sounds like the kid spoke up and was honest. That's good. Pretty mature move on his part. It also lso sounds like dad took it well and left him plenty of room to grow in the future.  :tup:

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Re: Son just isn't ready yet...
« Reply #20 on: October 16, 2011, 08:51:18 AM »
I think you did good, not pushing him into it. When he's ready, you'll both know.

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Re: Son just isn't ready yet...
« Reply #21 on: October 16, 2011, 05:01:40 PM »
Don't forget he's at that age where blacktail isn't the only tail on his mind. He probably has a girl he likes in the neighborhood and wanted to stay at home.

haha
 
he's 12 dude, prolly just getting his first real pimple on his nose
x-box is the only thing on his mind
 
 

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Re: Son just isn't ready yet...
« Reply #22 on: October 16, 2011, 06:52:27 PM »
He just didn't want to go. He camps with the scouts one weekend a month and i was surprised when he said he didn't even want to go camping. He has been in a funk lately.
I have been out of town all summer so we havn't spent alot of time together this summer. This was my first weekend off in a while so we are spending as a family at home.
I guess if he did not even want to go camping, then not much you can do about it.
Congrats on a great kid !
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