It's not a no no word, its a stop or get banned word. Trash talking others is not ok never has been, never will be. Stirring the pot on a thread that is very serious is never a good idea. We are working hard to get this site more friendly to everyone. If you have a problem with someone keep it to your self. If you can't play nice then you will get a break from the site. It's pretty easy guys and trust me its getting old.
Who said anything about back patting? It's a wise up or get gone thread.