You need to remember in nature the hen goes to him when he gobbles. If you're answering every call, he figures you want him as much as he wants you and will expect you to show up. By calling less frequent and softer, you are trying to reverse nature by using his natural curiosity and sex drive against him. Be patient and wait him out ... be ready though, because 1/3 of the time he'll come in gobbling, 1/3 of the time you'll hear him spit and drum as he's coming (pphhht followed by a buzzing sound), and 1/3 of the time he'll sneak in silently. Sometimes it's best not to call at all once he's coming, or he may stop to look, strut, and expect you to come to him. Be ready, alert, and very patient anytime you start the game ....
