"Lite" often equals barrel jump. It is never that much with a 9mm, but something to consider. I wanted compact, but fun to shoot. I ended up with a single stack Sig P938 SAS. It is a steel frame and compact. Because it is steel, it isnt as lite as the polymer ones available. It is very managable, a good carry and fits a variety of hand sizes depending if you want to use an extended magazine. It is more comfortable for me with an extended magazine and my daughter shoots it with the standard capacity magazine.