confrontation doesn't have to be a negative experience, but for some reason it definitely has picked up that reputation.
the act of confronting : the state of being confronted: as a : a face-to-face meeting
but I can relate and understand what you guys are talking about. It does seem like 1/2 the birds that decoy in, (probably 75% of the birds on those 'rough' days) get within about 100 yards and then someone starts blasting their 10ga and flares them.
it happens, but I'll be honest. decoys, and watching the birds are my favorite parts. It's worth it to me to be up early watching the sun rise over my decoys, listening to the geese, and watching stupid swans drop their landing gear in the middle of my snow decoys even if I don't go home with a single bird in hand.
boats, sunrise, birds, decoys, guns, outdoors, good friends. What more could you need?