@LazyLab, yes you can disarm the grip safety on an XD(m) but it's not adviseable, the grip safety actuates the sear block leaving the striker safety only and the pistol not entirely drop safe. Try a Sig out and see if you like it, there is no safety switch, just chamber a round and de-cock the pistol, first shot is double action and subsequent shots are single action.
@carp, I'm about 20 miles north of Seattle, not exactly close...