LT, when my oldest is 12 my wife won't see much of us at all! My youngest will be 10, we'll be gone all the time! He's almost 4, his brother is 2. They both want to go, and love blowing calls, but I have to be careful about their introduction to the whole thing. Need to keep it positive and not boring, exhausting, cold, hot, or frightening. This year the 4 year old will be on coyote stands. Doesn't matter how tough it is for me, he'll see a dog come in, I'm determined!
Big game, that's another judgement call, you're absolutely right.
I love my kids and wouldn't be without them, it's just the way life goes when you try to do it right. Like I said, 10 years from now? Leave me a message, WE won't be here much!