Well..we are using the heavy stuff because its simply my stuff...Im being lazy and cheap and attempting to avoid buying her her own stuff!
Im gonna get off my arse and buy her some much lower spined arrows and switch to a 90 or 100 grain
the thing that bothers me is even at 20 yards the arrows sometimes plane around and impact 6-8 inches from POA. I can sorta shoot her bow and cant get any better groups than she does??

Other than spine...what could cause the umm planeing?
I wonder if sportsmans will build arrows at 1/2 dozen instead of a full?
The weight of arrows and changing arrows and shortening arrows is all in interest of shot groups...not concerns with speed or kinetic energy!