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As for reloading manuals, the rule of thumb is that you can't have too many. Try to look up loads in several as a starting point.If I were starting out, I would buy a good press and build around it. It's not that complicated.
Buy the RCBS Rockchucker kit. You will not regret it. And at least 2 or 3 reloading manuals. Speer and Hornady are both great manuals. They've been my bibles for 25 years.